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You’ve worked hard. You’ve grown. You’ve accomplished things that an earlier version of you may have once thought were impossible.
So why can it still feel like you’re not good enough?
Why can someone praise your work and, within seconds, your mind finds a reason the compliment doesn’t really count?
Why can you achieve the goal, get the opportunity, earn the recognition, and still wonder whether you truly deserve to be there?
If you’ve ever experienced this disconnect between what you’ve accomplished and how you feel about yourself, there may be more happening beneath the surface than a simple lack of confidence.
And understanding that difference could change the way you see yourself.
This is for you if you’ve accomplished meaningful things, yet somehow still feel less capable than other people seem to think you are.
It’s for you if you keep raising the bar because reaching the last goal never created the confidence you expected.
And it’s for you if you can easily recognize someone else’s strengths while struggling to fully acknowledge your own.
This isn’t about pretending you’re perfect.
It isn’t about convincing yourself that you never need to improve.
It’s about understanding why your internal picture of yourself may not have caught up with the person you’ve already become.
Have you ever wondered how NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming, AKA: The Lost User Manual fo the Mind) came about?
You've probably heard the phrase, "NLP was not invented, but rather modeled."
"What does that even mean?"
Most people assume he's a dirty menace. He's kicked out in the middle of the night because he doesn't have enough money for a cup of coffee.
They don't realize the impossible downward spiral he's stuck in that put him there. They don't know that, even though he is homeless, he cleans and grooms himself every day in a locked Del Taco bathroom and washes his clothes at the laundromat with the precious little money he has to keep his sanity so he doesn't slip down the rabbit hole of becoming a "bum." They don't realize the support of his family and friends has run out (or at least he thinks it has).
They don't know him and they don't want to. Would you want to know him?
There has been a lot of talk lately about “the five second rule,” the subject of a book and media campaign by Mel Robbins.
The premise is that your brain is your enemy when it comes to success and achievement, so you have to "trick it" to be good at anything.
The author explains how procrastination and apathy caused her life to spiral out of control – a failing marriage, a career she hated, etc. – and the only thing that turned it around and “fixed” her life was counting down backward from five and taking action the second she gets to zero.
Why?
Have you ever forgotten someone’s name?
Of course, you have… it’s one of the most common (and embarrassing) situations.
What about a phone number? Or a to-do item on your task list?
If you’re like most people, you think you have a less-than-perfect memory.
In fact, you’re wrong... Research has shown for decades that the subconscious mind absorbs and records at an astonishing rate (over 2,000,000 bits of information per second) that your conscious mind (which processes only 126 bits per second) isn’t even aware of.
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