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Every-day hypnotic language

Posted: Tuesday, September 2nd, 2008 : Read 1,242 Times : 621 words (~3 minute read)

“So you’re sitting there, looking at your screen screen, reading this article while your eyes scan across the page taking in each letter, each and every word, becoming even more curious about hypnosis with each and every breath you take.”

What you probably don’t realize is that the above sentence is hypnotic in nature.

When we talk to people, for the most part, we are trying to influence them. We’re taking a concept from our mind and trying to communicate it in words that will hopefully make the same concept in their mind...

This doesn’t always work. Sometimes, the other people won’t listen, no matter how good your concept is. Here are a few from my life that I can think of. Maybe you can relate:

  • Telling the boss you need a raise or a vacation.
  • Telling your children they need to brush their teeth.
  • Telling the officer your speeding was just an accident.
  • Telling your parents you’ll be at the in-laws for that holiday this year.

So, how would you like to be able to deliver your communication in a way that meets the least amount of resistance? That would be useful, wouldn’t it?

Of course it would! And the answer is hypnotic language.

In this article, we’re talking about the hypnotic language pattern called, “Pacing Current Reality.”

The concept is really simple. State a chain of things to the other person that are undeniably true, then state what you desire.

What this does is create a repetitiveness in the other party to continually say, “Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, etc”

In my opening line, you’re probably sitting there (yes), looking at your screen (yes), reading this article (obviously, yes) while your eyes are scanning the page (yes), taking in each letter (yes), each and every word (yes) – and here comes the part I want you to agree with – becoming even more curious about hypnosis with each and every breath you take (YES!).

See how easy it is? Now, some of you might be thinking this would sound funny in regular conversation.

Let me assure you it doesn’t.

This technique is not exclusive to hypnosis. It has been borrowed by the sales industry and they call it “Yes sets.” Not only is it used in everyday conversations, it’s very powerful! Try it!

Let’s see how the above examples work now, using this every-day hypnotic language:

  • Joe, you’re the boss. It’s your job to manage us employees and to reward us when we excel. There’s extra money in the budget this year, and I’ve done an excellent job. I’d like you to consider giving me a raise.
  • Timmy, I know you want to go to Disneyland tomorrow. It’s past 8pm, you’ve got your PJs on, and your TV show is over. Why don’t you go brush your teeth and crawl into bed.
  • Sir, I’ve realized that I was speeding. I know it’s your job to keep people safe, and you pulled me over for a very good reason. You can see my record is clean and I am a very good driver. I hope you can let me off with a warning this time.
  • Mom, Dad. I hate your turkey. (Just kidding)

As you can see, these yes sets are very powerful. Play around with them and practice them well. For a full course on hypnotic language, come join us at the NLP Practitioner Training in September. We’ll share with you everything you need to know to integrate this language pattern and many, many more into your everyday language and become a master communicator.

-Michael

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ABOUT MICHAEL STEVENSON MNLP, MHT, MTT

Michael is a best-selling author, business coach, success coach, and international speaker with impressive credentials and experience.

He has helped nearly 200,000 people around the world learn to use the power of the mind to turn off the "autopilot," take hold of the controls, and create the life of their dreams.

Michael started Transform Destiny in the year 2000 with a deep passion for helping people transform their individual destinies, after transitioning from an unsatisfying field in computer programming.

Now, he heads Transform Destiny, the top NLP, hypnotherapy, and coaching training company in the world, and our trainers teach these valuable skills all over The United States of America, as well as other countries.

You can read more about Michael on his bio page.

More about Michael

  • Co-Star of the Documentary Movies

    • The Evolution of Success with Jack Canfield, Joe Vitale, Bob Doyle, and Others
    • A Year of Transformation
  • Accolades

    • Voted the second most influential person in the field of NLP in 2020 by the Global Gurus Organization
  • Author of the Books

    • Best-Selling Book: Unbreakable Spirit
    • Best-Selling Book: The Courage to Win
    • International Best Seller: Inner Revolution
    • International Best Seller: Mastery of the Mind
    • #1 Best-Selling Book: All the Answers Are Within
    • #1 Best-Selling Book: Becoming Positively Awesome
    • #1 Best-Selling Book Learn Hypnosis... Now!
    • Best-Selling Book: 33 Coaching Niches: The Definitive Guide to Selecting Your Perfect Niche
    • Best-Selling Book: Influence to Profit: Turning Words Into Wealth With Ethical Influence and Persuasion
    • UnStuck: The Owner's Manual for Success
    • The Power to Create Your Day... Now!
    • Quick Fix: NLP Recipes for Bliss
  • Credentials

    • Certified Master Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming
    • Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
    • Certified Master Trainer of TIME Techniques™
    • Certified Master Practitioner of TIME Techniques™
    • Certified Neuro-Linguistic Master Learning Specialist
    • Certified Neuro-Linguistic Learning Specialist Trainer
    • Certified Advanced Parts Therapy Specialist Certification
    • Certified Eye Movement Integration Practitioner
    • Certified Business Coach and Business Consultant
    • Certified Master Success Coach and Certified Trainer of Success Coaching
    • Certified Master Life Coach and Certified Trainer of Life Coaching
    • Certified Funnel Optimization Expert and Customer Value Optimization Expert
  • Board Certified Through

    • International Board of Coaches and Practitioners
    • International Association of Counselors and Therapists
    • International Medical and Dental Hypnotherapy Association
    • American Board of Neuro-Linguistic Learning
    • International Hypnosis Federation
    • National Guild of Hypnotists
    • International Alliance of Professional Hypnotists
    • International Hypnosis Association
    • The Transform Destiny NLP Practitioner Training Program was voted globally as the top NLP Certification training program out of literally thousands of programs around the world by the Global Gurus Organization.
    • The Transform Destiny Company is also certified as an approved training institute by the International Board of Coaches and Practitioners and the International Hypnosis Federation.
    • Our Learn Hypnosis... Live!, Learn Hypnosis... Now!, NLP Practitioner, and NLP Master Practitioner trainings are also approved by the International Hypnosis Association.

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