The Presuppositions of NLP
Convenient assumptions for creating profound shifts in your clients and yourself
Mnemonic Device: RESPECT UR WORLD
- Always Respect the other person’s model of the world.
- Behavior and change are to be evaluated in terms of context and Ecology
- Resistance in a client is a Sign of a lack of rapport. (There are no resistant clients, only inflexible communicators. Effective communicators accept and utilize all communication presented to them.)
- People are not their behaviors. (Accept the person; change the behavior.)
- Everyone is doing the best they can with the resources they have available. (Behavior is adaptable, and the current behavior is the best choice available. Every behavior is motivated by a positive intent.)
- Calibrate on behavior: The most important information about a person is that person’s behavior.
- The map is not the Territory. (The thoughts we have and the words we use are NOT the event or the item they represent.)
- (U) You are in charge of your mind, and therefore your results
- People have all the Resources they need to succeed and to achieve their desired outcomes. (There are no unresourceful people, only unresourceful states.)
- All procedures should increase Wholeness
- There is Only feedback! (There is no failure, only feedback.)
- The meaning of communication is the Response you get.
- The Law of Requisite Variety: (The system/person with the most behavioral flexibility controls the system.)
- All procedures should be Designed to increase choice.
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