The Meta Model of NLP
| Pattern | Response | Prediction |
| Distortions | ||
| 1. Mind Reading: Claiming to know someone's internal state. Ex: "You don't like me." | "How do you know I don't like you?" | Recovers Source of the Info. |
| 2. Lost Performative: Value judgments where the person doing the judging is left out. Ex. "It's bad to be inconsistent." | "Who says it's bad?" "According to whom?" "How do you know it's bad." | Gathers evidence. Recovers source of the belief, the Performative, strategy for the belief. |
| 3. Cause/Effect: Where cause is wrongly put outside the self. Ex: "You make me sad." | "How does what I'm doing cause you to choose to feel sad?" (Also, Counter Ex., or "How Specifically?" | Recovers the choice. |
| 4. Complex Equivalence: Where two experiences are interpreted as being synonymous. Ex: "She's always yelling at me, she doesn't like me." | "How does her yelling mean that she..?" "Have you ever yelled at someone you liked?" | Recovers Complex Equivalence. Counter Example. |
| 5. Presuppositions: Ex: "If my husband knew how much I suffered, he wouldn't do that." There are 3 Presuppositions in this sentence: (1) I suffer, (2) My husband acts in some way, and (3) My husband doesn't know I suffer. |
(1) "How do you choose to suffer?" (2) "How is he (re)acting? (3) "How do you know he doesn't know?" | Specify the choice & the verb, & what he does. Recover the Internal Rep., and the Complex Equivalence |
| GENERALIZATIONS | ||
| 6. Universal Quantifiers: Universal Generalizations such as all, every, never, everyone, no one, etc. Ex: "She never listens to me." | Find Counter Examples. "Never?" "What would happen if she did?" | Recovers Counter Examples, Effects, Outcomes. |
| 7. Modal Operators: a. Modal Operators of Necessity: As in should, shouldn't, must, must not, have to, need to it is necessary. Ex: "I have to take care of her." b. Modal Operators of Possibility: (Or Impossibility.) As in can/can't, will/won't, may/may not, possible/impossible. Ex: "I can't tell him the truth." |
a."What would happen if you did?" ("What would happen if you didn't?" Also, "Or?" b. "What prevents you?" ("What would happen if you did?") |
Recovers Effects, Outcome. Recovers Causes |
| DELETIONS | ||
| 8. Nominalizations: Process words which have been frozen in time, making them nouns. Ex: "There is no communication here." | "Who's not communicating what to whom?" "How would you like to communicate?" | Turns it back into a process, recovers deletion, and Ref. Index. |
| 9. Unspecified Verbs: Ex: "He rejected me." | "How, specifically?" | Specifies the verb. |
| 10. Simple Deletions: a. Simple Deletions: Ex: "I am uncomfortable." b. Lack of Referential Index: Fails to specify a person or thing. Ex: "They don't listen to me." c. Comparative Deletions: As in good, better, best, worst, more, less, most, least. Ex: "She's a better person." |
a. "About what/whom?" b. "Who, specifically, doesn't listen to you?" c. "Better than whom?" "Better at what?" "Compared to whom, what? |
Recovers Deletion. Recovers Ref. Index. Recovers Comparative Deletion. |
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- Metaphor Outline
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